Admit it! Most of us feel awkward to talk to new people. What is it that makes us numb and become anxious about interacting with strangers? While talking to someone for the first time may seem difficult, you can avoid it as long as you know the right tricks.
You are watching NYK, and when you find yourself completely lost while talking to a stranger or someone is known for years, use these 4 tips to keep that awkward curse at bay.
4. USE SOME MAGIC WORDS LIKE "HI, HELLO"
We know it sounds so obvious, but do you know it's one of the biggest barriers? In most cases, social awkwardness when conversing with strangers is simply breaking the ice. Your first words will engage them and they will respond back. So, try to be the one who opens the door to conversation.
3. DON'T MIND WHAT STRANGERS THINK
Always remember that it's your life, and you have the right to initiate a conversation with whomever you want. Not everyone is that open and that's okay. Allow them to think whatever they want to, but don't let it challenge your personality and courage.
2. MAKE THEM LAUGH
Laughter is the medicine that can make any conversation joyful and fun. You may be unaware but the majority of people like to talk with others who make them laugh. So don't think too much and don't take things too seriously – just chill and have some fun with it!
1. TREAT THE OTHER PERSON AS A FRIEND
Imagine that the stranger you are talking to is already your friend. This way you will automatically treat the other person that way instead of seeming nervous or anxious.
Remember when you are friendly to someone; they will also most often be friendly back.
Follow these tips to get through your next awkward conversation with a stranger.